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2nd Sep 2026

Why Charisma Makes It Hard to See Red Flags

Why did no one see who he really was sooner? The answer might be charisma itself.

In this episode of Inner Work, Dr Marianne Trent reflects on Netflix's Worst Ex Ever and unpacks why charm, confidence, and love bombing can quietly shut down our ability to spot red flags.

#Charisma #RedFlags #LoveBombing

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Psychology, Actually
Real conversations about the psychology shaping our lives, work, and relationships
🎙️ Psychology, Actually with Dr Marianne Trent is a podcast about what’s really going on beneath the surface of our lives.

Through conversations with psychologists, professionals, and inspiring guests, we explore the psychology shaping our work, our relationships, and our inner worlds bringing together clinical insight with genuine human understanding.

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Marianne Trent

Dr Marianne Trent is a qualified clinical psychologist and trauma and grief specialist. She also specialises in supporting aspiring psychologists and in writing compassionately for the media.